<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6988762307231918234</id><updated>2012-02-16T18:03:54.579-08:00</updated><category term='Self-Improvement'/><category term='family'/><title type='text'>Shine Baby</title><subtitle type='html'>Official blog of Gospel Dream Winner and Dove Nominated recording artist, Melinda Watts!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Shine Baby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFAy1IelU0Y/TvdejFIzHuI/AAAAAAAAACE/CRkhe7oWeFk/s220/vintagevarsity.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6988762307231918234.post-3269837316217477149</id><published>2011-12-25T09:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-25T09:30:19.409-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Self-Improvement'/><title type='text'>2012 is My Year!</title><content type='html'>&amp;nbsp;&lt;style&gt;@font-face {  font-family: "Times New Roman";}@font-face {  font-family: "SimSun";}p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }h1 { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; page-break-after: avoid; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }div.Section1 { page: Section1; }&lt;/style&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;h1&gt;2012 Will be My Year!&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;If you’re anything like me you may have had&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;trouble sticking to last year’s resolutions.. Well ,don’t worry; you can make 2012 the ‘year of establishment’ with these excellent tips.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I’ve really been challenging myself! I've committed to doing what's necessary to see the changes that I desire in my life. While working on my new album, I will also be de-cluttering my life from things that are not serving me in the best way! I thank God for Jesus, who gives us the Power to commit and change!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Here are a few tips that will get you going and established for 2012!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Goal setting!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Random or unclear goals will get you nowhere. Take some time out to think about the positive changes that you want to usher into your life. This could be on the personal, professional or spiritual front. Make a list of goals for each of the 12 months – these should be realistic and hold a lot of value. So, make sure you give this the thought it deserves to lay a solid foundation for the year ahead! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Have an idea about how you will meet your goals!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Setting lofty goals that you have no idea how you will achieve is a strict no-no. So you want to be a better neighbor. How do you achieve this? Would inviting your neighbors over for a barbecue or starting a book club where you all can meet up once a month to discuss your favorite literary pieces help forge a bond? If yes, then note this down and work towards it. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Same goes for other goals. Do you believe that you can be a better Christian? See how you can use your talents and ideas to serve your local church, volunteer at a soup kitchen, or donate your time to teaching underprivileged kids. If you want 2012 to be the year when you land a full-time job with a good pay, assess which certification course or vocational training will best help you achieve this aim. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Keep a track of your progress!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;By measuring your progress, you understand how far you have or haven’t reached your goal. This will also help you determine if you need to reassess your strategies and figure out if improvements are needed. Importantly, you will feel great when you measure your progress and see how far along you have come! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Devote some time for meditation and prayers!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;When you spend a few quiet minutes everyday remembering Him, your fatigue washes away and you feel at peace. Meditation and prayers calm your body and mind, de-stress you effectively and have the power to make you stronger and more resolute. I spend time in prayer in the earliest part of my moring! This sets the priority of my day and sets the tone for all of my actions to follow.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Stay positive!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Without a positive frame of mind, you cannot achieve anything. Stay positive and optimistic. If you feel gloom or pessimism creeping up on you, talk to your spouse or family, or hang out with your friends to get over the negative thoughts. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Here’s to a 2012 filled with success and happiness…! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6988762307231918234-3269837316217477149?l=justshinebaby.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/feeds/3269837316217477149/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/2011/12/2012-is-my-year.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default/3269837316217477149'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default/3269837316217477149'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/2011/12/2012-is-my-year.html' title='2012 is My Year!'/><author><name>Shine Baby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFAy1IelU0Y/TvdejFIzHuI/AAAAAAAAACE/CRkhe7oWeFk/s220/vintagevarsity.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6988762307231918234.post-3992387752203132688</id><published>2011-09-15T19:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-15T19:29:42.062-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><title type='text'>Stay at Home Mom</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOGGER-youtube-video" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0" data-thumbnail-src="http://3.gvt0.com/vi/rbtRnmhBunM/0.jpg"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rbtRnmhBunM&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" /&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF" /&gt;&lt;embed width="320" height="266"  src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rbtRnmhBunM&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;When I was younger I was always independent. I never wanted my parents help with anything. I&amp;nbsp; grew up as the younger sister and I wanted to do things on my own. This attitude generally worked in my favor growing up because I had my own ideas and views and could easily be a leader among my peers. Now that I am older, married and I have a very active toddler running around the house, there isn't much time for me to be alone and independent. Even my bath time gets a teeny weeny knock at the door.. "Mommy can I come in".. I can't resist her little voice! So what I've found is when everyone goes to the game or to grab groceries, that's the perfect time for me to fall into my "Stay at home Mom" role. I will stay back from some of those trips just to steal some moments alone. It's during this time when I can seek the Lord, write some goals, and even to just paint my nails! It's nothing wrong with needing some personal time because it helps you stay refreshed and focused for your loved ones. I love the song "Draw Nigh" by Fred Hammond ... It is so powerful and ministers right to the heart. Drawing nigh unto the Lord even in the short moments of the day can do wonders for your marriage, your children and everyone around you because you become in tune with Holy Spirit. That's the most beautiful experience in this world.&lt;br /&gt;So tonight, I'm staying home to worship,&amp;nbsp; clean, organize and have this treasured moment to myself:-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shine Baby!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;M&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;!--more--&gt;&lt;hr xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6988762307231918234-3992387752203132688?l=justshinebaby.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/feeds/3992387752203132688/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/2011/09/stay-at-home-mom.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default/3992387752203132688'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default/3992387752203132688'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/2011/09/stay-at-home-mom.html' title='Stay at Home Mom'/><author><name>Shine Baby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFAy1IelU0Y/TvdejFIzHuI/AAAAAAAAACE/CRkhe7oWeFk/s220/vintagevarsity.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6988762307231918234.post-8686903131839865027</id><published>2011-09-11T23:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-11T23:04:20.585-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dream Girlz Gathering Tour 2011-Seattle</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOGGER-youtube-video" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0" data-thumbnail-src="http://2.gvt0.com/vi/KQ7Rc31qTaY/0.jpg"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/KQ7Rc31qTaY&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" /&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF" /&gt;&lt;embed width="320" height="266"  src="http://www.youtube.com/v/KQ7Rc31qTaY&amp;fs=1&amp;source=uds" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;There was no rain in Seattle for us this summer! We brought the message of love and hope to the city of Seattle for our DreamGirlz Gathering! Check out the recap :-)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6988762307231918234-8686903131839865027?l=justshinebaby.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/feeds/8686903131839865027/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/2011/09/dream-girlz-gathering-tour-2011-seattle.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default/8686903131839865027'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6988762307231918234/posts/default/8686903131839865027'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://justshinebaby.blogspot.com/2011/09/dream-girlz-gathering-tour-2011-seattle.html' title='Dream Girlz Gathering Tour 2011-Seattle'/><author><name>Shine Baby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFAy1IelU0Y/TvdejFIzHuI/AAAAAAAAACE/CRkhe7oWeFk/s220/vintagevarsity.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
